Current Edition Summer 2012 May 22, 2013

For the spring 2011 issue of The Eleusis, we’d like to know your best advice for the first day on a new job.

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Pearls of Wisdom

Professional Musicians

We asked Sisters how they incorporate music into their life. We are pleased to share their answers with you in another offering of Pearls of Wisdom, great ideas for Chi Omegas from Chi Omegas.

Samantha Franck, Lambda Delta/Kent State U
Music uplifts me, moving me for reasons I cannot explain or understand and, when my voice is the instrument, making me feel alive like nothing else can. I love it so much that I’m putting my 20+ year career in corporate America on the shelf and moving to New York to pursue my passion for musical theater. For the full story, check out my blog: www.blameitonbarrymanilow.wordpress.com.

Tammy Smith Kirk, Epsilon Gamma/U of Tulsa

Music IS my life. Since 1991, I’ve been secretary-treasurer of Local 94, American Federation of Musicians (AFM) and for four years was an international executive officer for the AFM. As a local officer, I’ve participated in contract negotiations for symphony, opera, concert-band, and musical-theater musicians. We enable musicians to have more control over wages and working conditions. I am a professional flutist in the Rosestone Trio and have performed all across the country, most notably in 1997 at the Mid-Atlantic States inaugural ball for Bill Clinton.

Melissa Halderman Treziok, Gamma Delta/San Diego State U

As owner of Dance Society, a dance studio in San Diego, California, I will tell you that music plays a huge part in my business and in my life. It is the inspiration for my creative expression. Music sets the tone for each dance move and allows me to create an entire story or experience through the art of dance. Even in tap, when we often dance without music, the sounds of our feet become the music and we are the musicians.

Connie-Lu Berg, Phi/U of Southern California
I am a retired music teacher but haven’t retired from making music. I landed my first job as an organist when I was a college freshman. Today I prepare eight pieces each week to play at two churches. I perform during social hour for the Retired Teachers’ Association and there are weddings, funerals, and golden anniversaries, too, not to mention occasional gigs for conventions, club meetings, and fundraisers.

Donna Dirksing Doran, Chi/Transylvania U
I am an elementary music specialist in Cincinnati. I have written ancillary materials for the McGraw- Hill music textbook series and frequently present workshops and clinics. Additionally, I am the education director for the Linton Chamber Music Series Peanut Butter and Jam Sessions and am on the Cincinnati Symphony Orchestra’s Advisory Committee for Education.

Jane VanSickle Samford, Epsilon Gamma/U of Tulsa
I am a violinist and pianist and teach orchestra at Austin Academy in Garland Independent School District in Garland, Texas. Our school is a fine-arts magnet and serves 6–8 grades. There are 175 pupils in our orchestra program. They compete and perform at a very high level and have a great record of superior ratings and best-in-class awards. With my husband, also a professional musician, I play at churches on the weekends and perform with a string quartet at weddings and parties.

Moms and Kids

Dawn Hunsicker Brewer, Eta Gamma/U of South Carolina
My 20-month-old daughter loves to dance! I’m a stay-at-home mom and try to make every day special and fun. We listen and dance to the music of The Beatles, Paul Simon, Harry Connick, Jr., Frank Sinatra, and Annie Lennox, and we dance to silly nursery-rhyme songs. I want her to grow up listening to all genres. Nothing makes my daughter smile more than dancing in her pajamas in the morning! When she’s older, I hope these songs serve as a memorable soundtrack to her fun-filled childhood.

Cathy Lake Black, Xi Zeta/U of Tennessee–Martin
When my son was a baby and couldn’t sleep, I sang Shades to him. Now he plays guitar and sings and wants to be a rock star. Maybe he will marry a Chi O.

An Entertaining Party Game

Annette Iacovetti Radogna, Gamma Delta/San Diego State U
One of my favorite ways to incorporate music in my life is when we are entertaining. We put on a digital music channel that plays oldies and we guess the artist and titles, inevitably sharing our memories, “this song reminds me of . . . ” In fact, last night I heard a song that took me back to my three dearest Chi O Sisters, sitting on the floor of our room in the chapter house, singing, laughing . . . having good times!

Musical Memories and Family Fun

Linda Sahlberg Gagnier, Alpha/U of Washington
Music was an important part of my sorority life. I am 63 years old now and can still sing the recruitment song, “Chi Omega, Chi O Chi, We will love you ’til we die! We have friendship bonds so true. Come on in, they’re here for you. Chi O! Chi O! Chi O! Chi O!” Oh so much fun!

Cynthia Metzler, Beta Delta/Thiel College
Growing up there was always music in my house. I danced around the kitchen with my grandmother at Christmas while singing carols and I used to polka through the house with my Nan. I like to keep those traditions alive every day. Even when I am at work, I have a song in my heart and I let it carry me though the day.

Allison Alderson DeMarcus, Kappa Beta/Rhodes College
Jay-&-Ali-singing-MTP300x225.jpgI am very fortunate to have music in my home every day. I married a man who not only makes music for a living (Jay DeMarcus of Rascal Flatts), but also chooses music as his hobby. We have a recording studio in our home, often have some of Nashville’s most talented songwriters in our living room, and I coerce my sweet husband to play the piano for me from time to time. Needless to say, I have been very spoiled being surrounded by the beauty of music on a daily basis. I am always amazed to hear a song being created in its rawest form and hear a simple melody and lyrics as they are transformed into a finished, commercial product.

Allison DeMarcus and husband, Jay, performed recently at the Miss Tennessee pageant.

A Relaxation Technique

Michelle Dennis Carter, Gamma Zeta/U of Arkansas–Little Rock
I use music to relax. As a mother of two children and the wife of an unemployed husband, life can be very stressful. Music helps me escape the worries I have. When I was in college, I used music to help me study. I love all kinds of genres, but my favorite is contemporary Christian music. It helps me realize that there is a higher power that will make everything all right.

Workout to the Beat

Sherri Hull Gericke, Rho Alpha/U of Missouri– Columbia
I just retired after 35 years of teaching physical education. During the winter months when we were in the gym, I used upbeat music every day. Students listened to a variety of music, from my favorite oldies, disco, pop, or rock, to country. Many times music started and ended an activity. I used it during warm-ups, running, relays, tag, basketball, and volleyball games. It always motivated students and me!

Michelle Judd, Phi Mu/Lehigh U
I listen to music when I stretch and when I go for short runs. The beat keeps me motivated and enthusiastic.

Choir Vocalists

Carmen Breen-Lopez, Mu Kappa/Duke U
I make time for music by singing in my parish’s choir. We rehearse twice a week and it gives me the chance to practice my craft among a group of seasoned singers who have a range of talent but are equal in enthusiasm!

Debbie Patterson Pappas is a member of the Raleigh (North Carolina) Junior League Chorus.

Debbie Patterson Pappas, Rho Zeta/East Carolina U
Jan-Pappas300x225.jpgI incorporate music in my life by being a member of the Raleigh Junior League Chorus. Every December we perform at rehabilitation centers, retirement homes, and other places where people want to be uplifted and feel good about hearing old, familiar songs. It’s a blessing to see other people touched by our singing, especially when they join in. Also, being with these women brings back memories of Chi O Sisters singing together!


Jamie Smith, Psi Gamma/Mercer U

I sing with my church choir and perform in community theatre here in Savannah, Georgia. Music has always been in my life. My father was our elementary school music teacher and there was always music playing in our house. I played piano and clarinet growing up. I first discovered my natural ability to harmonize while singing Chi Omega songs and had solos in our skits. Music will always be an important part of my life.

Music in the Workplace

Meredith Eisz Haase, Kappa Lambda/U of California–San Diego
An avid country music fan, I listen to my favorite artists throughout my work day on Pandora. Anyone notice the lyrics in Rascal Flatt’s Unstoppable? They include, “It’s a helping hand when you need it most.” So great!

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